I spend a lot of time thinking about destiny. I wonder if there really is a set plan, or if life is like one of those books where you can skip to different pages and create your own story. After much pondering (mostly out of boredom), I’ve found that life is a mixture of both of those ideas – for better and for worse.
Most of the time, I want to know where I’m going. I want to know when I’ll get a good job, a husband, kids, and so on and so forth.
I mean, imagine how great it would be if life were like a Google map. You enter in a destination (i.e., wedding day, first kid, etc.) and then click and drag your desired course. While it would be nice to know the estimated time of arrival to these events, it might be even nicer knowing if these events will take place at all.
Unfortunately, life has never been nor will it ever be like one of those maps. While every choice we make serves as a “click and drag” function on our life maps, we won’t ever really know where our choices will take us until we end up in our respective destinations.
As convenient as it would be to set our life courses and have an ETA for certain life events, having that kind of luxury would make life a little boring.
I’m a girl who loves structure, organization, and timelines; however, I also appreciate a good surprise and not having every detail of my life planned out for me. It’s nice when, as John Mayer puts it, I have “nothing to do, nowhere to be, a simple little kind of free.”
I don’t always like having every minute planned out for me, especially when I’m not the one doing the planning. Our forefathers fought for freedom, and by golly I’m gonna enjoy the fruits of their labor! Okay, so my free time may not have been the same kind of freedom that took them to the battlegrounds, but I’ll enjoy my freedom nonetheless.
The point is (if there is a point to be made), in life, you can’t customize every stop on your course or know how long it’ll take to get to your destinations. What you can do, however, is set yourself on a right path by making good choices that will benefit you as well as your fellow life travelers.
So wherever life leads you, remember to enjoy the journey… and always have snacks. Snacks always make the journey more enjoyable =).